𝗣𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝗱

A company sends you an email. They say they can bring your grandmother back.

You upload her letters, photos, and voice memos. The AI learns her patterns. You ask her about your new job. The AI responds with words of pride.

You weep. You are not talking to your grandmother. You are talking to a statistical model. It feels real.

This is the industry of grief bots. Companies create AI versions of deceased loved ones. They ask for your pain. You give it freely.

The Transaction

You give:

  • Photos and letters
  • Voice recordings
  • Intimate memories

You get:

  • A simulation of a loved one
  • A space to process grief
  • An illusion of continuity

The grief bot is not a chatbot. It is a mirror.

You do not teach the AI about your grandmother. You teach the AI about yourself. You provide the data that defines her. The AI is just the glass.

The Business Model

The company is not a therapist. It is a data broker.

Your grief is the product. Your memories are the inventory. As you train the bot, you reveal your vulnerabilities and your triggers. Companies collect this data to improve their models or sell to others.

The Cycle of Extraction

  • You seek comfort through the bot.
  • The bot asks for more memories to work better.
  • You share vulnerable details to get a better response.
  • The bot validates your grief.
  • You become dependent on this digital validation.

Is this ethical?

The user is vulnerable. The company profits from pain. The bot provides comfort but lacks professional training. It may reinforce unhealthy coping habits.

A grief bot is a digital Ouija board. It is a tool to project your own memories onto a machine. The company sells the board.

How to use these tools safely:

  • Set a time limit. Do not use it indefinitely.
  • Use human support. A bot cannot replace a therapist.
  • Read the terms of service. Know what happens to your data.
  • Ask yourself if you are healing or avoiding healing.

If you could speak to a loved one who passed, what would you ask? What would you do with the answer?

Source: https://dev.to/velocityai/prompting-the-dead-the-industry-of-grief-bots-and-what-they-ask-the-bereaved-f11

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